This is so hard

August 14, 2009

Not the trio. The trio is doing pretty well, just the usual hiccups, problems and great times. I’m talking about the blog. I start a blog entry trying to say something, but then I feel the need to fill in some background, then I have to explain that, then I need to make another point, which brings more background and filling then more editing. After thirty minutes I feel like it’ll take a novel to convey what I want to say, but sadly, most blog readers aren’t here for well written entries. Most people want to read about the “awesome” guy that has a wife and a girlfriend and gets all the sex he wants all the time. I wish it was that simple.

I have so many drafts of posts that started out simple, but turned into these huge philosophical things that really go nowhere so I put them into draft hold. And that’s where they stay. I’m not a journalist. In fact, I’m probably the farthest thing from it.

So a real update…

We’re all doing okay for those few people who check in on us. We’re coming up on five months and we’re constantly reminding ourselves that it’s only been five months, not five years. Sometimes it feels like it’s been an eternity since we started. To those who come here for some form of advice, always try to remember how long you’ve really been together. Putting unnecessary pressure on yourselves makes things so much harder. Love each and every moment you’re together. You might not have that many left.


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