I know it’s been awhile since I’ve posted. In truth, things have just kind of reached a fairly common day to day thing. However…
Dear World,
Go away and stop trying to break us up.
VL has been feeling a great deal. She’s going through rehab for addiction, she’s coming to terms with some very major supressed grief and she’s reentered the workforce and is trying to juggle rehab requirements and work responsibilities. It’s quite a bit of effort. And the horrible thing is that around once a week, without fail, someone tells her that the situation she’s in is horrible for her and she should get out. And by situation, I mean our little family. These people range from ex-girlfriends, ex-boyfriends, counselors to old “fuck buddies.” And, to be really honest, I’m getting really frustrated and tired of dealing with it. As if we don’t have enough troubles with our lives, other people try to interject their opinions in and create doubt. They don’t see the environment that VL is in where she has a group of people caring for her and giving her an environment that is condusive to getting clean. They just see her in a lifestyle that isn’t the norm so it must be wrong. As a side note, I find it especially humorous coming from her ex-girlfriends who are some of the most vocal people ever when it comes to gay marriage.
So listen to this world. Take care of your own problems and stop trying to create new ones in my life.
Posted by Paul 
